Winning a girlfriend has a lot to do with pampering and making her feel extremely special. When you find yourself suffering from your girlfriend's lack of care and attention she might be suffering the same too. A girl's love can only be earned by loving her too.
Making a girl special can be done through gifts. No she's not being materialistic, truth is she doesn't care much about the price, it's the thoughtfulness she's after. Win your girlfriend back by giving her reasons to brag about you with her girlfriends. This will even earn you nods of approval from friends and family. In gift giving make sure it's sweet and romantic, like jewelries, cards, flowers, candlelight dinners, or walks in the beach. Do not give for-the-boys items like basketball jerseys or baseball tickets, these things excite you not her. Make her preference a priority, this will really make her feel important and will help her in deciding to stick with you. Sing her love songs. Give her the satisfaction and the amusement of hearing you sing. Write her poems.
Shower her with loads of surprises. Think approving to go shopping with her, strolling at the park, or playing circus games, things you don't usually do. Accompanying her in places and activities she loves proves you a worthy boyfriend. Also, squeeze into your schedule surprise visits. It will really warm your girlfriend's heart if you show up on her doorstep with a cup of coffee and snacks or visit her at work to deliver flowers. Your girlfriend secretly wants you to amaze her with unusual meetings and dates. Of course, regular dates are vital and important, it maintains commitment and connection and surprise dates, are essential too, because it keeps the fun and excitement in your relationship. It prevents the fun-filled and thrilling relationship transition into work and labor.
In order to win your girlfriend back you must practice good grooming. Nope, her love for you won't change the fact that your feet smell. Avoid letting her smell your sweat or see you unshaven, or any other bad grooming habits. Your girlfriend just like any other girl values cleanliness and hygiene so much. So buy grooming products, shave more often, do something with smelly feet, and have extra shirts in case you sweat, just be the boyfriend worthy of hugs and kisses.
And lastly, accept her for everything she is, and make sure you let her know it. Make sure that you are there for her through her ups and downs. Communicate your willingness to be her hero, from opening up jars for her, killing unwanted bugs in her kitchen, or saving the day for her. Listen to her rants, allow her to unload her issues and problems, and never judge her. The bottom-line in winning a girlfriend back is being able to understand her, something only a great boyfriend like you can do.
