There are different kinds of first kisses. The first kiss ever and the first kiss with a new partner for the first time. Both are equally nerve-wracking because we always want to make sure we get it just right. Both are first kisses that we always remember. You may also remember what you were wearing or what song was on the radio.
When it comes to your first kiss ever, the most important first kissing tip to remember is to relax. Everyone goes through the first kiss at some point. Don’t worry about seeing fireworks like is often portrayed in movies. It probably won’t happen like that. Among other first kissing tips that are important is to not worry that the kiss may not go quite as smooth as you may have dreamed it would go. But trust me, after your first time it gets better and better.
Before your first kiss, you will probably have butterflies in your stomach. They are good butterflies, though. The first kiss can define the relationship and often takes it to the next level.
Who should kiss whom the first time? This is a question asked by a lot of people all over the world. I say it doesn’t matter. A lot of people think it is the guy’s obligation to be first to do everything, such as saying hello, asking the girl out, and making the first move. Is it fair to put all the pressure onto him? Absolutely not. If you feel as though you want to kiss your boyfriend or girlfriend, you should trust your instinct and make the move. There really is no need to stick to a hard and fast rule that says someone else has to make the first move. Good for you for having the guts to dive in for the catch. Now at least you are going to know that you are going to kiss someone and can prepare. The other person may feel the same way as well but may feel too shy to do anything about it.
Sometimes the first kiss is planned, and other times it happens spontaneously. A park setting or beach can be a good spot for a first kiss. A kiss is something shared by two people, so you may not want to kiss this person at a party in full view of friends and strangers. A big first kissing tip is to be sure to cherish the first kiss; don’t put it on display for others entertainment.
You shouldn’t kiss when you are in a rush. If you kiss and then have to leave, the other person may feel shocked. This can make it awkward when you meet up the next time. Both of you may want to talk about it a bit, especially if the kiss has changed things with the relationship between you. No doubt you’ll want to kiss for a while, especially seeing as it is your first kiss.
With some planning and knowledge the first kiss doesn’t have to cause sweaty palms and nerves. Remember that everyone has a first kiss. It only gets better with practice, so don’t expect perfection the first time around. Enjoy yourself and cherish the memory.